Let’s get this started, finished. Whatever. This guy is sleezy and skeavy and I feel gross. “Mistakes” guys make while treating the entirety of public life as a heterosexual singles bar.
3. Not leading the conversation
Oh good. The domineering stranger will pick the tyopics of the conversatin he orders me to remove my headphones to partake in, as his audience. Of coyrse. Gotta keep our ears clear to hear them. Must service the men by providing a repositiry for all their verbal ejaulate.
No matter how confident or challenging women might behave,
Hey fuck you too buddy.
a lot of women still dream of meeting a guy who is more confident than themselves
A lot of men are into ball torture. Should women bestow this treatment on everyone they presume to be male, since men have decided to bestow the kink fantasy of some women onto all of us (including non women misread by your scattershot ways), whether we want it or not? Alas, I think we’d get in trouble.
A woman doesn’t want to be forced to lead a conversation with a shy guy, but she will if she has to or she wants to.
So she doesnt want to do it, but will if she wants to. This guy was paid forvthis drivel. Maybe the safe bet is to stop forcing women into conversations.
Leading a conversation with a woman is not about bossing her around, being arrogant or being too assertive.
Good god man, Oxford comma or none, just pick a bloody side. Notice how he says this interaction that started with commanding a woman to remove her headphones because a man desired to expel words at her is not about bossing her around.
You simply need to remain confident and keep the conversation going in a relaxed, easy going manner.
He used all these words earlier to describe behavior which in reality is bossy, arrogant, too assertive, and sexist.
4. Sticking to polite or reserved conversation
Jesus, why are men?
A guy who is trying to talk to a woman wearing headphones has to make his presence felt twice as quickly as a guy talking to a woman anywhere else.
But why does his presence being felt by her matter more than what she was already freaking doing? Oh wait, it doesn’t. This guy literally doesn’t care.
Since she is wearing headphones, when those headphones come off, his conversation style has to spark her attraction and interest and make her want to listen to more of what he has to say.
Or you could just grant women the same freedom to be in public without unwanted sexual advances that you do to men. Wild, I know.
If he begins asking her an endless amount of personal questions, or doesn’t takje the conversation anywhere other than UST being a friendly chit-chat, she will quickly lose interest and return to her music.
Wow it’s almost like she was doing something before he interrupted her.
Engaging conversation skills are essential in keeping a woman’s attention at the best of times and even more so when she can switch herself off with a clickj of the “play” button.
Okay I don’t want to make too much out of a Freudian slip but this dude just referred to a woman no longer paying attention to him as switching herself off. That’s some mighty impressive objectification!